Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Respect, Bro.

I heard some news today. Rather, I was delivered some news today. I found out that, indeed, the 3 month rule has been broken by my former boyfriend.

It's not like I wanted so bad to hear ANY news AT ALL about him. Au contraire, I am carefree and happy and couldn't give a damn about him or his new chick. I really don't. I was surprised that my friend voluntarily gave me this valuable piece of information - telling me what kind of guy he really is.

This friend of mine (who is really close friends with my former's friends and the lady herself) told me that he was really pursuing this girl. I personally couldn't give a damn. No qualms about the lady, it's not my fault he's a jerk needy guy. I didn't even ask my friend what the name of the girl was (but she was ready to give it to me since she's also close to her *gasp*, I just said, "No thanks.")

But what annoyed, irritated and disrespected my whole being was the fact that I was SO REPLACEABLE. That he couldn't wait 3 months for him to actually put his moves on another person. Funny thing was, when his friends asked my friend what I felt about the news, my friend non-chalantly said "Issa doesn't care. She couldn't care any less."

Perfect words. And his friends thought that it was cheap of him to break the 3-month rule. I wasn't the one who said that. His friends thought and said that. Hahaha. I'm laughing. What a jerk guy.

I'm writing this just to get it out of my system: I'm really disrespected. I'm not asking him not to date anyone. Date and date. Many fish in the sea. I just wish that he respected me as someone he "loved" (as he claimed that he did) before. I chose to respect that 3-month rule. I still am respecting it. (I am REALLY enjoying my single life lol). 

Anyway, no bittergourd slices here.

Just learn to respect bro. Respect.

Have a good day. What comes around, goes around, my friend.

Cheerio,
Larissa Ö

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